STEP BY STEP, HAND IN HAND-WE SHALL OVERCOME…..
A little six year old girl looks up to her mother and
asks,”Ma! When I will be writing like my friends? All of us started writing at
the same time. They’re writing and drawing so nicely, why does my writing look
like this? Am I stupid?”
A touching question by a little girl, who is being troubled
by the fact that her handwriting is indecipherable to others. It’s just not a
question of bad handwriting! There are two very genuine reasons behind this
article to reach to millions of readers out there. One, to try to answer the
queries of parents and teachers of children who have been struggling with
learning difficulties for a long time, and two, to let those children, who have
been called ‘stupid’ and ‘slow’ all their lives, know that they are not so.
Some of the children are extremely different from their
peers. Some might be slow, some might have trouble with their motor
coordination, some might struggle to speak ordinary sounding words, etc. These
kids are usually labeled as “slow”, “stupid” ,”not motivated ”,”mentally
retarded ”,”hyperactive”, ”destructive” and so on.
The little girl, mentioned earlier, now watches a science
show on TV with intense concentration. After it’s over, she asked her mother,”
I have understood that the earth moves around the sun and the moon moves around
the earth. If, for some reason, the earth falls down, what will happen to the
moon?” Without waiting for answer to her first question, the little girl then asked
again, “Ma, why do we need a rocket to launch a satellite in space? Why cann’t
an aeroplane do the same job?” Is she mentally retarded, stupid, slow to
understand? I think she is not. On the contrary, the girl is displaying a
serious knack for science and scientific thinking. This little girl, with her
sunny smile, extensive vocabulary and a charming disposition wins hearts
everywhere she goes. But let me tell you she is also dyslexic.
What is dyslexia? The word is based on two Greek words-“dys” meaning difficulty, and “lexic” meaning anything to do with
words. According to the World Federation of Neurology-“Dyslexia
is a disorder manifested by difficulties in learning to read, despite
conventional instruction, adequate intelligence and socio cultural
opportunities.”
It has been found that 20% of school-going children have difficulties
in learning (read/write). But only 3% to 6% are dyslexic, and rest (14% to 17%)
have a learning disability (LD). Dyslexia is a fairly
rare disorder. It is a neurological condition and there is no known
cause or cure for dyslexia till now.
The brain has two important areas – known as cerebrum and
cerebellum. The cerebrum receives and process stimuli from the sensory organs
and the cerebellum controls body movements and connects the body’s responses
effectively with the outside environment. When this connection is delayed, or
when the neural pathways are incomplete, it creates a condition known as
“cerebellar delay”, which causes dyslexia.
Myths Surrounding Dyslexia
People with dyslexia are stupid or dumb – No.
In fact, mounting evidences show that many people with dyslexia are highly
creative, out of the box thinkers and extremely intelligent. Neuro-imaging
studies demonstrate that the dyslexic brain things differently. Another very
peculiar myth about dyslexics is that they have vision problems. That is also
not true.
People with dyslexia
We have a long list of successful people who were
afflicted, or rather, blessed with dyslexia, who went on to become famous in
their own right. Some of them are Archer Mortin, Tom Cruise, Pierre Curie, Michael
Faraday, Albert Einstein, Muhammad Ali, Leonardo da Vinci, Alexander Graham
Bell, Henry Ford, William Hewlett etc. This list can go on and on.
I was trying to look for people from India who have
embraced their dyslexia and achieved success. There are 1.27 billion people
living in this country (latest census), and I still couldn’t find a single
person with dyslexia. Don’t we really have any dyslexic in this country or they
have been getting killed/crushed? There are big WHERE and HOW which need to be
answered.
Common symptoms of dyslexia:
For a dyslexic child, alphabets become very
naughty and are flying all around. The child often say, “‘c’ becomes a rabbit
hiding in the bushes, ‘a’ is standing upside down, and ‘t’ has become a cloud
hanging in the sky”. Just think about a little child who has been asked to writing
sentences, when she/he sees only alphabets dancing and hopping. Following are
some the typical symptoms observed in dyslexic children:
·
Unwillingness in going to school and having constant
difficulties in keeping up with the class.
·
Very quiet or act out to either distract the
teacher or get attention from other children.
·
Difficulties with spelling, in copying from
the board, and reading and comprehension.
·
Marked discrepancy between the child’s
apparent intelligence and their reading and spelling skills.
·
Difficulties in verbalizing words leading to weak
vocabulary (at least initially) and delayed spoken language.
·
Poor grammar, handwriting and weak memory.
·
Trouble with organizing and writing thoughts
and ideas.
·
Possible difficulty with mathematics (Not
necessarily).
·
Difficulties in visual tracking moving
objects, following simple instructions.
·
Difficulties in multi instructions &
tasking
·
Confusion between left and right,
·
Additional diagnosis of ADD/ADHD in some
cases.
What can be done?
Understanding the problem is the key to achieving any
solution. India has a long way to go before people understand dyslexia and
other learning difficulties.
1.
Early identification: As
soon as some of the aforementioned symptoms are seen, don’t take it easy. Certain
things are not corrected by time and age. A certified educational psychologist
should thoroughly evaluate the child first. Early identification of dyslexia will
help to protect the child’s self esteem. And alternative educational
arrangements can be made.
2.
Acceptance: Do
not panic on confirmation of dyslexia. It is not a life threatening disease. It
is a learning disability, which can be overcome with patience and suitable
learning techniques. We must learn to accept them the way they are. What matters
the most in handling such issues is the right attitude.



3.
Take Expert Opinion: Specialists
who routinely work with such cases should be consulted immediately at different
stages. A normal pediatrician might not be of much help, but he/she can certainly
recommend/refer the child to a specialist like - child development specialist,
neuro-pediatrician, child psychologist, occupation therapist, special educator,
etc.
4.
Tell the child we are with you: This
is the most important thing of all. Unconditional love and support are all that
the child needs from us.
5.
Work hard on building the child’s self
–esteem: We have seen that a few people have overcome their difficulties
and made it big in life. The self image of
a child has an important role in making him/her self confidence. Dr.
Cosgrove
,one of the dyslexic achievers in the world, have said about confidence and
self esteem:
“I frankly think dyslexia
is a gift. If you are supported in school and your ego remains intact, then you
emerge with a strong work ethic and a different view of the world.”
Strong
Ego---------Positive Self Image -------confidence---------- self- esteem ----perform
better
6.
A simple example will help you understand. A six
year old girl comes home in tears. When asked by her mother, she says, “Ma, my
best friend showed my writing book to the entire class today and they laughed
at me. When the ma’am came, I asked her to help. But she looked at the book and
laughed also with the rest of the class. And she told me that I had the worst
handwriting in the whole class. How should I change my writing?” It’s really
terrible happening for a little child.
7.
We need to teach our dyslexic children how to
handle critical situations and protect their ego by making them aware of their
strengths. We parents should go all out and envelop the child in our safety
blanket, at the same time also make him/her strong from within.
8.
Weakness Vs Strengthens: We
need to focus on the bright side. What is the child good at – singing/dancing/painting?
Attention should be given to channelize child’s talent/strength, as opposed to
worrying about his lack of writing skills or counting ability. It will help
boost the child’s self-image and self-esteem.
9.
Change the methodology: It
has been proven that dyslexic children are intelligent children with lots of
potential. We need to change the teaching methodology in order to utilize their
potential to the maximum. For them we often need to go in for a remedial or
alternate system of education, which employs the maximum use of colorful
presentations, web chats, smart phones, computers, televisions, e-chats etc.
10. To
create a support group or system: The family which has a
dyslexic child should try and create a closed group of sensitivity friends and
families from their social circles, and inform and educate them about dyslexia.
The group contributes towards the social, moral and all-round upbringing of the
child and therefore, is a valuable asset.
11.
The child should not be left behind in
terms of knowledge and information:
The school’s role in assisting with dyslexia: The school is one of the first places where the
child can be diagnosed for dyslexia, because it has to do with reading and
writing. Therefore, the school has a huge responsibility to ensure that the
child receives a proper alternative educational treatment.
If, due to some reason, the
school fails to identify the problem, two major difficulties will arise.
1. The
benefits of early identification will not be accessible.
2. The
child’s fragile ego and self esteem will be damaged permanently by taunts and
jeers of classmates and sometimes, the teachers.
The recently amended Right
to Education Act 2009 has adapted to meet the needs of special children, who
require a different approach. Special considerations are routinely made for dyslexic
children in board examination.
The
ages between five and eight are crucial in building both the mental acuity as
well as the confidence levels in the child. So following should be done:
·
A shadow/ sensitive teacher at school should
accompany the child.
·
Teachers should be made aware of the child’s
difficulty, and be competent enough to identify the child and refer him/her to
the right place.
·
The teacher should support and protect the
child in class. For example: if the teacher asks everyone to open page 63, the
dyslexic child might open page 36. In this confusion, the child will not be able
to follow whatever the teacher is teaching. Polite help and encouragement are needed
to child’s participation in the class.
·
The parents should immediately be informed
about the child’s difficulty.
·
There should be special educators in every
school.
·
Child development pediatrics should visit the
school periodically.
Don’ts:-
·
Don’t pressurize them by any means into
learning, reading and writing. It’ll probably be the worst thing for a dyslexic
child.
·
Don’t use words like “If you will work hard
you will learn”. Although they are very bright, but they become terribly
anxious.
·
Don’t demoralize them.
·
Don’t blame the child for not understanding
something in class or at home.
·
Don’t exclude the child from normal social
life or intellectual discussions.
·
Don’t underestimate the child’s potential.
·
Don’t send him/her to special schools meant
for mentally retarded children. A dyslexic child is not mentally retarded.
But through support
and encouragement, these small behavioral discrepancies can be sorted out. Once
that is done, the child will be free to harness his talent and potential
without any barriers and reach to the stars. Nothing will bar their way to
achieve their normal life. We shall surely overcome……
References:
1.
AVKO Education
Research Foundation. Retrieved 5 July
2010
2. IDA
Fact Sheet (2008) Dyslexia Basics. International Dyslexia Association
3. Lyon
GR, Shaywitz SE, Shaywitz BA. A definition of dyslexia. Annals of Dyslexia.
2003;53:1–14
4. http://online.wsj.com/news/articles/SB10001424127887324020504578396421382825196
(Dyslexia Workarounds: Creativity Without a Lot of Reading)
5. International
Dyslexia Association (http://www.interdys.org)
6. http://www.dyslexia-teacher.com
7. http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/jun/24/dyslexia-not-a-disability-gift
8. Einstein:
The Life and Times by Ronald
William Clark
Author: Who am I to write such an
article? Who am I to expound a serious and sensitive issue like dyslexia?
Remember the little six year old girl you met in the article? She’s mine. I’m
the mother of that girl and this article is extensively based on my personal
experience. – Roohi, MSW & BA, L.Lb.
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