What can be done?

Understanding the problem is the key to achieving any solution. Now that we have gained some insight into the matter, let us read about what can be done to facilitate the intellectual growth of dyslexic children:

1. 1. Early identification: As soon as some of the aforementioned symptoms are seen, don’t take it easy. Many parents fall into the “we’ll see later” trap, and by the time the diagnosis is made, it’s too late. Some things are not corrected by time and age. A certified educational psychologist should thoroughly evaluate the child at this stage. The main advantage of early identification of dyslexia is that we can aid the child’s self esteem. Going to a school where not writing and reading in the conventional manner will definitely attract punishment, it is simply not in the child’s best interest to be sent to such a school in the first place. This is why early identification is necessary. Alternative educational arrangements can be made.

1. 2. Acceptance: Now, when dyslexia is confirmed, do not panic. It is not a life threatening disease. It is a learning disability, which can be overcome with patience and suitable learning techniques. Read and try to know as much about it as possible.  The fact is in our country people have very less idea about the subject. So what if they are working in the Dyslexia industry? India still has a long way to go before people understand and come out in the open and discuss issues like dyslexia and other learning difficulties. Remember, these are just small kids, who have learnt intrinsically that they will never be able to match their friends’ standards. Children are very sensitive and astute, and any stray remark about their learning difficulty will only make them retreat further into their shell. Learn to accept them the way they are. You don’t have to “fix” them, nor treat them any different from your other kids. The right attitude matters the most in handling such issues. Do not consider them as dumb or stupid. Allow them to find their own path and see them flourish. Then they will not be further ignored or crushed. They will get equal opportunities to grow. 

   Right Information => Right attitude => Right behavior => Create

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1.  3. Take Expert Opinion: There are a lot of specialists who routinely work with such cases and who should be contacted immediately at different stages, like - child development specialist, paediatrician, neuro-paediatrician, child psychologist, special educator, occupation therapist, remedial educator etc. They are professionally qualified people who can guide your child and facilitate his/her learning needs. A normal paediatrician might not be of much help, but he/she can certainly recommend/refer the child to a specialist.

1. 4. Tell the child we are with you: This is the most important thing of all. We have no idea since how long the child has been struggling with this problem all alone.  Without knowing What, Why and why only he/she is suffering etc. He already knows something is different about him. Reassure the child with a big, warm hug that tells him that he is not alone now. Your unconditional love and support is all that the child needs.